That we may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith, both yours and mine. – Romans 1:12
Giving and receiving… are interconnected. Yet surprisingly the average person is usually better at giving than receiving. That is not to say people don’t like to get free stuff, most do! But free stuff is different than receiving a thoughtful gift. The emotions of receiving can be complicated with thoughts like “the score is no longer even, I feel one down, I owe this person now” which clouds the gift.
The art of receiving well can only be cultivated by understanding the nature of giving. Giving is a picture of grace, offering something unearned to someone else. Even if what you give is not a perfect gift, the fact that you are offering it requires something of the receiver. Those familiar with grace may recognize all that is required to receive a gift well is to accept it with gratitude.
However, those striving for self-sufficiency might find themselves in the awkward position of feeling like they must now work harder to deserve the gift than they did before it was given!
The apostle Paul mentions his great needs many times in his writings as well as how wonderful it is when his companions in faith work to meet those needs. He was a good receiver, humbly allowing others the joy of giving because he understood the ingredients of grace!
Pray for the people of God in America to be grounded in grace, faithfully sharing His gift of salvation and hope with each other and the world.
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